Firstly, I am not from a small town. I am from a place that is technically not a city, but close enough, where people say hi to me because they know me, either by name or by sight. Generally, these interactions involve a small a smile, a wave, a simple "hello," or a good morning/afternoon/evening. Here in Bawjiase, however, it is rare to have an interaction that is so simple. For a reason which I have yet to figure out, it is crucial for the people of Bawjiase to call to me using some sort of name before/instead of actually speaking to me. These names include:
- Becca
- Becky
- Rebecca
- Ama (my Ghanaian name, given to all females born on a Saturday)
- Oburoni (White person)
- Obolo (nicely translated to mean big, aka you are fat and it is something we like and not an insult. Always difficult to explain to a new volunteer)
- White woman
- White man
- White
- How are you? I'm fine, how are you? I'm also fine.
- Good morning/good afternoon/good evening. Morning/afternoon/evening.
- Where are you going? I am going to town/market/Kasoa. You are going to town/market/Kasoa? Yes.
- Oburoni! Obibini!
- Give me 50 pesewas/5 cedi/water. No. You give me 50 pesewas/5 cedi/water.
- How? Fine.
- Oburoni, where are you? (commonly said by small children who are confused between where are you going and how are you)
- I want to take you as friend. Okay.
- Where is your brother/sister? (Lauren or Vlad)
- I love you/I want to marriage you. Oh.
- Oburoni, how is your life? My life is fine.
- Lastly, though not verbal, my arm is frequently touched/grabbed/squeezed by children, women, and men. I don't believe this is a social norm here as much as it is simply due to the fact that my arms are white.
Becca,
ReplyDeleteYour mom forwarded your blog link to me; I am fascinated by your adventures and comments. It sounds like an incredible experience. Take care, Oburoni!